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| | LADIES ARE FREE Jun 11, 2009
Ladies are always FREE. No credit cards needed. Full and Total Instant Access to all our features. So ladies join today just by entering your profile! -- Joe...more
FORUMS Jun 11, 2009
The forums are now open and active to all our Charter and Gold Members. Take a look and please introduce yourself there in the It's All About Me section and now the Hot to Trot meeting place is open there too. If you want to meet someone right now, this is the place....more
DISCREET BILLING Jun 11, 2009
Men and Couples. Your Billing is DISCREET. You credit card statement will say Poulet Maison Pty Ltd....more
CHARTER MEMBERSHIPS Jun 10, 2009
Due to popular demand, we have decided to open up some slots for Charter Members. What is a Charter Membership? A Charter Membership grants you access to the highest levels of the site and all features and options available. There is a one time fee of $99.50 and you will never be billed again. No Monthly fees ever. If you don't like having to worry about a monthly charge this is the way to go and it saves you a ton of money! Just click on the UPGRADE MEMBERSHIP option on the left side of this page and choose Charter Membership. ...more
FETISH PROFILE SECTION Jun 10, 2009
For our members with "Special Interests" I have just set up a new section in the profiles called FETISH we have also added new definitions. You can add this section to your profile so others with similar interests can find you. Just go to the EDIT PROFILE option o the left Look at the top of the edit screen and you will see a lot of options there like Lifestyle, Basic Information rtc. The one on the far right. You can just click on the word fetish there and a new screen will open allowing you to click off and tell about... more
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| | Fail-proof Pickup Trick Aug 01, 2009 by 0832655239
Here's a fail-proof pickup trick to use on the street for you guys lacking day game. It mixes a tried-and-true element of attraction with a small – but unique – addition for a little extra awesomeness. I tried it this past weekend, and it worked perfectly.
First of all, hit the streets during the day and go to a busy intersection. Instead of crossing the street with the masses, just hang back about 10 feet and look like you have a very good purpose for standing there (i.e., look confident). Try to make eye-contact with those women you find attractive. They won't all look at you, but you just need one.
When a hottie finally gives you strong eye contact, give her a smile. She'll probably break eye-contact, but stick with it. If she looks back at you, then she's interested.
So far, this is all basic stuff.
The twist comes with you letting her walk on by. Trust me, your patience will pay off. Let her walk by and out of sight for about a minute. During this time, she's thinking how cool it was to see an attractive man show interest in her, but is regretting that nothing came of it. She's wishing she could go back in time and redo the last few... more | All Stories |
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Being in love online - A Practical Guide Aug 12, 2008
More and more people these days are finding love online be it due to time constraints, unsociable working hours or simply the death of the community, but one thing is for sure, this is the fastest growing way to meet potential partners, however it has it's pitfalls. Whilst online dating agencies may offer a quick way to meeting these partners, Instant Messaging using programs such as ICQ, MSN, or Odigo offer a lightning speed way of getting very intimate, very quickly. It is so quick because you can be just who you want to be when you are chatting online, no one will see you blush if you say something wrong and most importantly, it allows you to take risks that you would never dream of taking in the real world. The most powerful aspect of this all though is that we paint our own picture in our minds of what the other person is without all those non-verbal cues such as facial expressions and mannerisms that subconsciously in the real world tell us valuable things about the person. In short, with our own beautifully created perception of the person, fall for them. So why do we as intelligent human beings end up falling for people we have never even met before? The answer is simplewe want to be in love, we so want to tell ourselves that the searching for our soul mate is over and with that we picture our lives in a blissful sea of coupledom, sharing our lives together. Sadly it is this haste to end our single lives that can lead to disappointment as quickly as it started.
Meeting Your online love for the first time
Sooner or later the question of actually meeting in person will come up and whilst many people would say it's better to take your time and let the online relationship develop, I strongly believe that the sooner you do it, the better. If you leave it too long, then the impression you have built up of this person will be so deep rooted that your expectations will be far too high and you will be set for disappointment. The other point is if you have been a lot more confident chatting than you would be in real life, how are you going to be able to keep up that persona? You may end up competing with yourself. So assuming that you are both happy with the length of time the romance has been going on for and you decide to meet, what will it be like? It will be quite strange to begin with. You may find that although you have been up most nights until 5 in the morning chatting, you find it hard to talk about things in the flesh. This is perfectly natural as the two of you are having to almost re-learn the parameters of the relationship and digest the visual cues that our mannerisms and facial expressions provide. It will be a nerve racking time as we have to decide there and then if these mannerisms and even physical odours are compatible with us. If you can pass that first test, then things get a lot easier. Do however be very careful if you are traveling abroad to meet someone because if things fail at this first hurdle, then you are totally stuck on your own in a foreign country.
Passed first base, what next?
Having gone through this initial nerve racking first meeting, there is often a huge temptation to revert back to an 'online relationship' as it feels so much more comfortable, but I cannot stress enough to resist that temptation. Slip back into the old online chatting routine and the online persona won't die. The transition from online to offline relationship can be extremely difficult but at all costs, you must get to know the real person from a new offline perspective and kill off any false impressions you may have had about them online. Going back to the online chatting routine may make you feel all warm and fuzzy again, but it can be an unrealistic perception of who the person really is.
In Summary
This all may seem a little negative and in some cases may not even apply, but overall, forewarned is forearmed. There are of course many people who have made a success of their relationship by Instant Messaging and some are even married now but it really pays to be aware of how feelings can be distorted by the shield of an anonymous nickname and a computer monitor.
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