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| | LADIES ARE FREE Jun 11, 2009
Ladies are always FREE. No credit cards needed. Full and Total Instant Access to all our features. So ladies join today just by entering your profile! -- Joe...more
FORUMS Jun 11, 2009
The forums are now open and active to all our Charter and Gold Members. Take a look and please introduce yourself there in the It's All About Me section and now the Hot to Trot meeting place is open there too. If you want to meet someone right now, this is the place....more
DISCREET BILLING Jun 11, 2009
Men and Couples. Your Billing is DISCREET. You credit card statement will say Poulet Maison Pty Ltd....more
CHARTER MEMBERSHIPS Jun 10, 2009
Due to popular demand, we have decided to open up some slots for Charter Members. What is a Charter Membership? A Charter Membership grants you access to the highest levels of the site and all features and options available. There is a one time fee of $99.50 and you will never be billed again. No Monthly fees ever. If you don't like having to worry about a monthly charge this is the way to go and it saves you a ton of money! Just click on the UPGRADE MEMBERSHIP option on the left side of this page and choose Charter Membership. ...more
FETISH PROFILE SECTION Jun 10, 2009
For our members with "Special Interests" I have just set up a new section in the profiles called FETISH we have also added new definitions. You can add this section to your profile so others with similar interests can find you. Just go to the EDIT PROFILE option o the left Look at the top of the edit screen and you will see a lot of options there like Lifestyle, Basic Information rtc. The one on the far right. You can just click on the word fetish there and a new screen will open allowing you to click off and tell about... more
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| | Fail-proof Pickup Trick Aug 01, 2009 by 0832655239
Here's a fail-proof pickup trick to use on the street for you guys lacking day game. It mixes a tried-and-true element of attraction with a small – but unique – addition for a little extra awesomeness. I tried it this past weekend, and it worked perfectly.
First of all, hit the streets during the day and go to a busy intersection. Instead of crossing the street with the masses, just hang back about 10 feet and look like you have a very good purpose for standing there (i.e., look confident). Try to make eye-contact with those women you find attractive. They won't all look at you, but you just need one.
When a hottie finally gives you strong eye contact, give her a smile. She'll probably break eye-contact, but stick with it. If she looks back at you, then she's interested.
So far, this is all basic stuff.
The twist comes with you letting her walk on by. Trust me, your patience will pay off. Let her walk by and out of sight for about a minute. During this time, she's thinking how cool it was to see an attractive man show interest in her, but is regretting that nothing came of it. She's wishing she could go back in time and redo the last few... more | All Stories |
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 | LOST USER ID OR PASSWORD CLICK HERE --- ENTER YOUR FREE PROFILE HERE Join our new XXX Match Dating Online? Watch that Ad! Jul 26, 2008
New to Online Dating? Trying to find the man or woman of your dreams through the Virtual World? You need to have a Good Personal Ad or Dating Profile
Some people don't believe me when I tell them that most problems with not enough Responses to your Ad can be fixed just by writing a better Ad. And then I often take them, real-time, to an Online Dating Site. I randomly start reading out profiles, and they cannot believe that so many people write such terrible ads! Maybe it is this overvalued notion of spontaneity, of writing whatever comes to your mind, letting it flow, being you - which leads you to write gibberish in your ads. Say goodbye to any success in Online Dating with that. Think what would happen if NASA Engineers became spontaneous.
So stop your Dating shuttle from crashing and read these examples of common Mistakes in Dating Profiles. Have a laugh, but be careful, your own profile may have bugs too! (All examples are real)
.."I am a funny, witty person...."
Funny and witty people never write that directly. Instead of saying this, add a touch of humor to your profile.
.."I was just bored, so wrote my profile here..."
A negative attitude. Instead, say, "I am new to this..."
..."I am an Honest, Spontaneous, Creative, Intelligent (..other personal adjectives) ...person."
Very few people think they are not, so this is very subjective (same as the fact that 80% people believe that they have an IQ above average!). Even if true, it is redundant information at best. Avoid using personal adjectives in your Ad or Profile.
Define yourself concretely-better to say I am a Guitar player in a Band or I write Novels or I am a practising Doctor than I am Creative or Intelligent.
..."I want a guy who can make me laugh..."
Comes across as negative-you sound slightly depressed if you need someone just to make you laugh. Theres plenty of stuff on the TV to make you laugh, and you are not looking for a joker, you are looking for a boyfriend, a mate...remember?
..."I like dark haired men, but if you are blond and good-looking, write me anyway, maybe you can change my mind...."
Turn-off to blond men. Make up your mind, if you are looking for only dark haired men, just say that. Dont play both sides of the coin, generally backfires. Better not to say anything if you are not sure.
..."I like taking walks by the ocean, or watching TV, or going camping with my friends..."
Unimportant details. Most people like these things, and these are hardly important details in finding a partner (it is unlikely you wont like going out with someone just because they dont like walking the beach or watching TV with you) . Your hobbies is where you put these things, and more specifically-e.g. Camping, or Watching Basketball.
..."I am sexy, flirtatious,... I like kisses on my back, full body massages from my boyfriend/girlfriend..."
Generally speaking, keep the sexual innuendos out. You will have plenty of time to exchange many raunchy emails if you are addicted to writing sexual stuff... but in the first impression, keep it out. Think about it this way-would you say this to a guy or a girl in a bar who you meet for the first time? If not, then dont say it in your Ad either.
..."I am looking for a REAL man/woman, with all the letters of REAL..."
Everyone is real. Basically, dont worry, sounds like you have had some bad experiences in relationships, but thats over now. Come with a positive attitude to Online Dating, and just meet the people. Then when you email them and meet them in person, you can decide if they are real or not.
..."I am not interested in guys who are bitter and boring..."
No one is. Use the Ad mostly to tell what you like, not what you dont like. Agreeability is a must have in first introductions.
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